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When I was fifteen, I was
given ‘a trial’ on the county minor team, playing Dublin in Naas.
Dublin were very good. I was a forward. The ball never came in my
direction for twenty minutes. Then, I got a sign from the sideline to
lie down and pretend to be hurt and be replaced. I felt the rejection.
The following year I was a strong college footballer and was automatic
choice. The third year I chose a different county to play for ...the
hurt lingered.
Everybody experiences
rejection in life, in some way, at sometime. It may be boy friend
–girl friend break off. It may be marriage. It may be health. It may
be the job. It may be sports, the exam, the family. In my innocent
days as a priest, I agreed to be judge at ‘a best baby competition
‘ once...never again. Every baby is best and every mother,
wonderfully, thinks so and rightly ‘feels’ rejection.
So it is consoling for us that
Jesus to day is rejected by his own very townspeople and relations. He
registers his hurt, but moves on. With the help of His Spirit we can
move on. How can we cope with not getting bitter, which is like a
cancer, growing in the heart? Jesus does not retaliate. We too must
try not to retaliate. I imagine that Jesus sees The Loving Father as
The Compassionate Doorkeeper. Some doors close in life, but others
always open. The Spirit of Jesus is in our hearts encouraging us,
register the hurt, but move on. All will be well.
Liam Hickey St. Ciarans Hartstown Dublin 15.
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